Private ESL English conversation tutoring. 10 Points to help you get that second lesson

If you've thought about teaching English privately tounderstand the problems they have with English.
adults who speak English as a second language, you6. Clear Speaking
may not be aware that it is actually easy to organiseAre you a good enunciator? Do you pronounce your
the first lesson. It is a lot harder to get the second. Ifwords clearly? It’s surprising how many people
you don't do a good job in the first lesson it is unlikelythink they do and they actually don’t. The best way
students will come back for the second!to find this out is if you record your voice onto a tape
So, before you even have the first lesson it is best toand play it back, then compare it to someone reading
be prepared. Make sure you ask a number ofthe news. If you can’t understand it easily, if your
questions of your potential student when you firstaccent is too strong for someone to understand,
schedule the lesson so that you are able to take alongyou’re going to have to start speaking clearly.
the appropriate exercises or conversation topics thatA quick way of doing this is to say ‘Wow’ in
the student wants. Obviously every tutor will want tofront of the mirror a few times. If you can’t see
prepare for their student but there are other qualitiesyour tonsils, you’re not enunciating well enough!.
you need, to make the lesson successful, that haveOpen up your mouth more when you speak.
nothing to do with lesson planning.7. A friendly or interested personality
The following checklist is helpful, and, in some cases,Yes, if you don’t show that you’re friendly or
crucial in getting your private adult ESL students tointerested you’re not going to keep your students
come back for more lessons.for long. You should know about pubs, clubs, travel,
1. Patienceadventure, sports, parties, and people. Students want
Patience is extremely important. You can’t do thisto hear crazy stories that increase their knowledge of
job without patience. Patience to listen carefully toparticular subjects. If they want to ask about drugs,
what your student says. Patience to understandbriefly tell them about your time in Amsterdam. If
completely what they are saying before jumping inthey’re interested travelling, tell them about the flies
with your answer. Patience to speak slowly andattacking you in Uluru.
clearly.If you’re an English teacher at High School or
2. FocusUniversity, you would be teaching from a text book to
If something bad has happened in your day, ora class and the students would listen carefully to every
you’ve had an argument with someone, or areword you say and study for a test at the end proving
worried about something, this will show up in yourthey’ve listened. Private tuition is completely
lesson and you may scare your student off. Bedifferent. Students can cancel even on the day of
focused on the lesson and the student and don't getyour lesson so make sure you’ve got the
distracted.personality to keep them coming back! (This may
You must leave all problems at home. Your solemean you’ll need to employ your acting skills, or
responsibility is to your student at that time. If you don'tbecome great at making up stories! Maybe those flies
think you can do that, reschedule the lesson.on your trip to Uluru lifted you off the ground!)
3. UnderstandingIf you’ve been working behind a desk for too long
If you have strong opinions on things, you have toand are worried that you may not be able to show
leave them at home too. It’s rare to get a studentyour engaging personality, you can brush up your skills
that will want to demonstrate his or her feelings forby either doing a short customer service, hospitality or
something, but if you do, and you strongly disagree,acting course. Make sure that the course includes role
it’s better for you to ask them to explain their pointplaying! You could also practice your tutoring skills in a
of view.language exchange environment. You can find many
Not only does it help them practice their English, it mightpeople wanting free language exchange lessons at
also give you information that you can use in your nextthis site: Japanese Language Exchange
lesson, because, if a student finds you agree withI have a student that has near perfect English who
them, they’ll be more comfortable with you and willwants to continue practicing with me purely because I
want another lesson.make her laugh! I've been teaching her for over a year
Of course, there are students that want to discussnow and have told her on a number of occasions that
and debate controversial topics, but you probablyshe doesn't need any further lessons but she says I'm
won’t find this out until after you’ve got to knowthe only person she can practice her English
your student over a few months. I’ve only met twoconversation skills with and be entertained at the same
students who were happy to pay me to debate atime!
topic that they felt strongly about.8. Pronunciation (also known as accent reduction)
If this looks like you’ll need to be hypocritical, think ofThis is probably one of the hardest parts of tutoring
it as practicing your acting skills. “That’s anEnglish. You are going to have to get into the habit of
interesting idea”, “I haven’t heard that viewcorrecting almost everything that your student says
before” and, “We must discuss this at length at(not all at once, of course!). And you’ll need to be
another time, but now let’s move on to…” areable to explain to them how to pronounce difficult
good phrases if your student touches on sensitivewords like ‘lorry’ or ‘exists’. Tongue
topics, like ‘whales are delicious’ or ‘womentwisters and reading practice are good ways of
should stay in the kitchen’ or ‘Come along tohelping students improve their pronunciation.
my church/Amway meeting this Sunday!’I had a student once who was so distressed by her
So, understanding the characters, personalities andexperience with a previous teacher forcing her to read
ideals of your students is a good way to continue youra turn of the century book about a blind woman for an
tutor relationship with them.entire lesson that she checked with me about what I
4. Be interested in everythingwas going to teach her and would only hire me if the
One skill I have that keeps students coming back tolessons were interesting! Of course I guaranteed that I
me is that I’m interested in almost everything. I canwouldn’t force her to read something she
talk about bosing tang, cancer, Winter Sonata,wasn’t interested in.
Japanese chat shows, Brazilian criminals, Thai insectReading aloud is the best way of improving a
dishes, Chinese business development, Australianstudent’s pronunciation. But a few students hate
Aboriginal folklore, politics, economics, reincarnation,reading aloud and hope to improve their pronunciation
Buddhism, Islam, Christianity etc. The list is endless, butpurely by talking with you. In these cases make sure
because I read from various different areas regularly Iyou have a long list of subjects to discuss so that you
always have something to talk about and almostcan challenge their vocabulary and pronunciation.
always have a ready comment on just about anythingAlso, when you are correcting, concentrate on only
the students ask.one or two areas per lesson. If your student has
“What do you know about the latest developmentsproblems pronouncing ‘th’, that will be your
in microparticle physics and time travel?”focus. Make sure they get it right. No point in totally
“Why is Freud more famous than Descarte?”depressing them during the first lesson by telling them
“Is it true that Shiitake Mushrooms cureall their pronunciation mistakes.
cancer?”9. Grammar
But if you don’t have the time or the inclination toYes, I know. Who worries about grammar when
be interested in everything, what can you do?speaking these days? Well, students from any country
The first lesson is where you ask all the questionswhere English is a foreign language! Students want to
about hobbies and interests. I’ve learnt that surfersknow about modals, prepositions, conjunctive adverbs,
of huge Hawaiian waves need to be taken up to thecollocations, euphemisms, phrasal verbs, idioms, puns,
top of them by speedboat, or that there’s aand more. They believe the more they know, the
skydiving wind tunnel available in the States for peoplebetter they'll be able to speak. It'll be up to you to try
afraid to jump from a plane, purely because I had twoand convince them that none of us learnt grammar
students interested in those subjects.when we were 5 years old and we could already
Watching the news every night is good too. Avoidhave long conversations at that age. You need to
sports news. No use to you in a lesson unlessexplain that they have to make mistakes to
you’re teaching someone who only wants to talkcommunicate and learn. If they worry about ending a
about sport. And you should focus on internationalsentence with a preposition all the time they'll never
news. After all, do you think foreign students are goinghave any sentences to speak with (!) A grammar rule
to be fascinated by the local news?is a record of how we have spoken in the past. Not
So, after they're happy with your first lesson, and to behow we should speak. English changes daily. With 3.5
prepared for your second lesson, go through all themillion English words and billions of ways to put them
hobbies and interests they brought up and producetogether, is a grammar rule going to help all the time?
related articles, news reports or exercises on them forIf that doesn't work, and you are unable to answer
the next lesson. I'm sure there's at least one websitetheir complicated question about split infinitives and
out there with articles related to what you need!future perfect continuous, for example, you can say
5. Acceptance"hmm, that's a very interesting question. It's not part of
Well, this is extremely important. You must accepttoday's lesson plan so I don't have any exercises on it
everyone and everything if you want to be a goodwith me, but I'll prepare something for you for the next
private English tutor.lesson and we can discuss it then.
So, if you have any racist attitudes, no matter how10. Have fun!
many stories you have to back up your view, youYou can have a lot of fun in your lesson too. Find out
should accept every person as a unique individual.what your students love and surprise them with your
They may even surprise you!knowledge in the next lesson. I had a student that
I’ve learnt that just because 10 unrelated students,wanted to know about Anime in Australia so I
that originate from a particular country in Asia, haveresearched that, prepared an exercise, got hold of the
been late to my lessons, doesn’t mean that the 11thbeginning themes of our most popular anime and
from that country will be. Or that even though someplayed them to him on my mobile phone. He was very
students from a particular country want to negotiate apleased.
lower price, some from that same country actuallyOne of my female Korean students really wanted to
want to pay the full price for 10 lessons in advance!have a late night lesson at the pub. So, we went to a
So, you can't stereotype your students. Treatpopular pub for Koreans on George St in Sydney
everyone as different.around 9pm, chatted for 2 hours, drank beer, talked
You also need to be flexible. Awhile ago while teachingabout relationships and Korean customs in Seoul, and I
at Adult English School I had a student whosegot paid for it!
schedule had been delayed and he hadn't had time toThere are of course many other things you need to
visit his mosque before visiting me. He asked if heknow before teaching a lesson and you may not yet
could use my office for a few minutes to pray. Ofhave some of these skills. Don't let that hold you back.
course I agreed and organised a space for him.You can always learn as you go. But you'll find
You must be able to appreciate and embrace thestudents stick around longer if you can prove to them
differences everyone has. Showing interest in anotheryou've got the skills to make the second lesson even
person's culture or customs will enable you to betterbetter!