| The G-Spot is an area on the front wall of your vagina | | | | for even more erotic foreplay. |
| that when stimulated, can cause women to orgasm | | | | * Cooling her off - While the shower and the warm |
| and sometimes ejaculate. For some women, | | | | massage oils may be perfect for the cold winter |
| stimulating the G-Spot creates a more intense orgasm | | | | months, these two ideas may work better in the hot |
| than clitorial stimulation. | | | | summer months. The first idea is to have your partner |
| * Tickling - Now when I say tickling, I don't mean to hold | | | | lie naked on the bed or couch. Make sure that the |
| her down on the bed and tickle her until she urinates | | | | majority of her erogenous zones are facing upward or |
| on herself. I mean something a little more mature. Take | | | | are easy to reach. Now take a hand held paper fan |
| a feather (if you can't find a feather, then go to your | | | | and gently wave it over each of those areas. If you |
| local pet store and check out the cat toy section - | | | | don't have a fan, you can also blow on the areas |
| you'll find a number of items you can use as | | | | yourself. Like the tickling, this sensation will make her |
| substitutes for feathers) and very gently graze your | | | | shiver with delight. The second idea again involves her |
| partner's skin with it. Pay special attention to her | | | | erogenous zones, but this time you'll cool her off with |
| erogenous zones. Your touch must be very light, so | | | | an ice cube instead. Don't have an ice cube handy? |
| the feather just barely brushes against her skin. This | | | | Try using a popsicle, then gently lick away the melted |
| will send shivers through her body. If she's naked, you | | | | part on her skin. |
| may want to start at the top of her head and work | | | | * Complimenting her - Remember that women are |
| down her neck, around her breasts, along the inner | | | | generally more self-conscious about their bodies than |
| part of her thighs, on the back of her knees, and so | | | | men are. That means that even though they are |
| forth. | | | | enjoying your touches, in the back of their minds they |
| * Massage - Remember that massage we discussed | | | | are wondering how they look. To relax them, you |
| under "Dirty Talking"? Well, that's considered foreplay | | | | should find chances during foreplay to compliment her |
| as well. Massages are a good choice for two reasons. | | | | body. Tell her how beautiful her breasts are, how |
| First, stress hinders your partner's ability to orgasm. A | | | | perfect her butt is, how soft her skin feels, etc. Just |
| massage will help her release all of that tension and | | | | whisper the comments in her ear between kisses or |
| stress so she is physically and mentally ready for | | | | while you're massaging her body. |
| pleasure. Second, a sensual massage will further her | | | | But be sincere. |
| excitement and can take her to the next level. You | | | | * Teasing - As things heat up, you can move on to |
| don't have to read books on massage to learn the | | | | teasing as a form of foreplay. When your partner is in |
| tricks of the trade either. | | | | the plateau stage, she is going to be feeling the need |
| All you need to know is how to rub your partner's | | | | for sex just as much as you are. Of course, the more |
| body so she gets a pleasurable feeling. You also need | | | | sexual tension builds inside her the better her orgasm is |
| to know where to rub. | | | | going to be as well, so don't give in too quickly. Keep |
| Some women love back massages, others like their | | | | doing everything you've been doing, but increase the |
| partners to focus on their shoulders or legs, while a | | | | intensity a little. For examples, your gentle touches |
| few prefer foot massages. If you've never given her a | | | | should be strokes and your light kisses should be a little |
| massage before, I recommend trying each of them | | | | deeper. If she asks you what you're waiting for, simply |
| until you discover which one pleases her the most. | | | | reply, "I'm waiting until you want to feel me inside you." |
| Also, there are a number of massage oils on the | | | | Don't give in the first time she asks. Hold off a little |
| market which work amazingly well at helping set the | | | | longer. This may be difficult for both of you, but the |
| mood and intensifying the experience. Oils that warm | | | | wait will definitely be worth it. |
| when they come in contact with human skin are a | | | | * Partial penetration - Right before you decide engage |
| wonderful choice, particularly during the winter when | | | | in actual intercourse, you may want to step up the |
| she is feeling a little chilled. | | | | teasing. You see, researchers have found that when |
| * Give her a bath - Women enjoy being pampered | | | | women are highly aroused and are near the height of |
| and giving her a bath is a great way to do that while | | | | the plateau stage, they feel a yearning to be |
| also getting her in the mood for sex. Here's what you | | | | penetrated. That's why so many women resort to |
| do. Surprise her by filling the bathtub with warm water | | | | using dildos and vibrators during masturbation. When |
| and bubbles. Have a glass of her favorite wine or | | | | your partner is begging you to fulfill that need, you can |
| beverage ready beside the tub as well. When she | | | | tease her a little more by only penetrating her vagina |
| slides into the water, take a soft sponge or cloth and | | | | with the very tip of your penis. Then very slowly use |
| begin to gently rub the soapy water over her body. | | | | more during each stroke. By the time you reach full |
| Remember to be gentle and to avoid contact with her | | | | penetration, she'll be groaning with relief and pleasure. |
| vagina. Near the end of the soaping, you can come | | | | These ideas are just the tip of the iceberg when it |
| very close to her vagina, by rubbing the sponge along | | | | comes to foreplay. After you try these ideas, you |
| her inner thigh. Then start slowly rinsing her off, possibly | | | | should begin experimenting with some techniques of |
| with a shower massager is you have one. When she | | | | your own. The more you learn about your partner's |
| gets out of the tub, have a warm fluffy towel ready | | | | body and what pleases her the easier it will be for you |
| and begin drying her off yourself. In fact, if your tub is | | | | to decide how to take her from those flickering flames |
| comfortable enough, you can sit behind her in the tub | | | | of arousal to a total inferno of desire. |