How To Marry A Wealthy Guy

How To Marry A Wealthy Guy(or Girl... Or at leastit's not High School anymore ... always make your own
Make Sure they're a Good Money Manager!!decision about who you like and be kind whenever you
ha,ha!)Here are some little tips so you can at least spotcan. It's very hard for a man to approach a woman in
a wealthy (or soon-to-be-wealthy) guy:1. If that BMWa group (all the more reason not to always travel in
he's driving is most likely leased, you may be looking atpacks!), so if you're not offended by the guy, one little
a guy who owes a whole lot of money to someonedance is the polite thing to do. Unless it's a slow song,
else... It's pretty easy to LOOK rich. You might want toand he's been leering at you all night, in which case a
check out the guy in the Truck orsimple 'No Thanks. Maybe a Fast dance later on...'
not-so-new-but-still-nice vehicle -- chances are highought to work. Strike up some conversations and
that he's the one who's been saving his bucks, and hashave some fun!5. Learn how to cook. No kidding.
the ability to make a whole lot more of them!2. HighCheck out my favorite recipes on the Tips & Recipes
Maintenance Women are great for High MaintenancePage, and try your hand at one of the recipes. I
Men -- are you willing to be a Barbie forever? Thinkhaven't met a man, yet, who doesn't love Cheesecake,
you ever want to just kick back and enjoy your life?so give that one a shot! Hey, you'll have a lovely treat
Probably not with this guy -- he'll demand perfection --for you and your girlfriends while you seek out that
his mother will, too, and yes, she'll definitely come withguy! You don't need to cook everything, it's just very
the package. (Hey, I don't know why these guys areuseful to have a couple of signature dishes that you
like that -- it's just a part of the special -- andcan make that will be fun to make for your new guy!6.
sometimes anal retentive -- package that you canHave (and go to...) parties with other single people.
often get with the Rich and Famous!)3. Wealthy MenMake them pre-timed in the afternoon, if it's too weird
are really looking for down-to-earth women who won'tto have one in the evening. Say, from 2:00pm - 4:00pm
blow their budget. (Go ahead... make all your jokeson a Sunday. Have each friend you invite bring another
here...I'll wait! ...) They are open to friendly women whosingle person. Be sure to include your 'couple friends',
would make easy companions -- fun to talk with whotoo -- they are great sources for single folk! At the
can get down to business when they need to -- whichvery least, you might make a new friend or business
is fairly often -- that's how wealth is made and kept!acquaintance. Sunday works, since you're more likely
He wants to be married for life, since he is seriouslyto get into a restaurant if you like someone enough to
trying to avoid losing half of his wealth-to-date in acontinue the conversation over dinner.7. Speaking of
Divorce.Now, here's a difference between a Rich ManDinner Out -- this is a very good sign of what kind of
and a Wealthy Man...a Rich Man is a fellow with aman you're dealing with -- a fellow who makes it clear
tremendous amount of money, and often he is lookingin advance of the meal that it's his treat is a good guy.
for a 'Trophy Wife'. A Wealthy Man is someone whoNot in a weird way, though -- if he goes on and on that
has worked really hard for his money and who wantshe's going to pay, and it's a huuuge deal, forget it. This
to not only keep it, he wants to make sure it grows.guy's crazy with his money, and you don't want to
The Wealthy Man is looking for a Partner to workdate a guy like this, let alone marry him!) If he wants to
along side him in this growth business, and help himshare the tab on the first date, watch out. Don't worry
keep his life running smoothly, then the whole family isabout that old thing where everything should be equal
much happier.Remember that the Type of Work thator you won't be on equal footing. If you like him, you
a Wealthy Man does may not match what is typicallycan offer to pick up the tab on the next meal... Just the
thought of as a 'monied position'. The old thinking wasoffer of reciprocation is very indicative of your
that only Doctors and Lawyers were the ones withwillingness to be equal partners, and that's what he's
money (this doesn't include Athletes, since they arelooking for.Now, of course, if you ask him out, you
few and far between, and we're talking about menshould also be prepared to foot the bill. Don't feel like
you might actually come in contact with on any givenyou have to hit the best restaurant in town -- you
day..!). Enterpreneurs, Contractors, Teachers (yes,could have a nice picnic in the Park, or have him over
some teachers are really, really good moneyto your place for dinner (if you've already had a few
managers, and are able to amass all sorts of wealth!),dates and you're comfortable with this).I actually had a
People in Construction and Real Estate, and let's not'blind date' years ago where the fellow brought a
forget Computers! Almost any line of work can lead aGrocery List and a Recipe for me to make dinner for
person down the Road to Wealth -- it's all abouthim -- can you believe that?? And to think he's still
Money Management, not necessarily how much yousingle -- who'da thunk that?! I couldn't believe it, so I
make in any given year.Keep an open mind when yousuggested just going out for Chinese, and guess who
meet a new person to see what they're really allpaid the bill -- me! I couldn't get rid of him fast enough...
about. You'll ensure a better future for yourself if you(just so you know, this guy was no poor soul -- I was
hook up with a man who has a solid understanding ofpoorer than dirt at the time, but he was an Architect
Wealth Management. A guy with a really high salaryand Professor... see how important knowing how they
who spends like a fiend (and NOT on Real Estate!deal with money is? Being with a man whose wallet
ha,ha!) in order to APPEAR Wealthy will be moresqueaks and dust puffs out when he finally opens it is
difficult to get ahead with than someone who earnsa nightmare to be married to -- he'll control his own and
less but manages his money well.4. Hang out at Boatyour money for the entire marriage.) And you always
Shows -- those guys are typically loaded. They havethought it was just a little meal!8. Be yourself -- no
to be to buy a boat and then actually take it out on theneed to put on any airs. That's no fun and you want
water. If you're lucky enough to live near water, hangsomeone who will love you, not some made-up
about (not leeringly...) at the Docks. Who knows whoversion of yourself. You know you're lots of fun to be
you might run into...? Hey, Building and Home Showsaround -- let him see that, too!9. Be confident. Know
are great, too -- maybe you'll get some great ideasthat you are worthy of being with him -- and make
while you're there, too!Don't forget to pop into shopssure he is worthy of being with you. Money isn't
where the wealthy go -- the Home Improvementeverything -- sometimes it comes with a great big jerk
Stores, Stationary Supply Stores, the Jean Storesat the end of the leash! (Ha, ha! I'm amusing myself,
(yes, contrary to popular opinion, many wealthy mennow, with that dog analogy!) Be extra careful not to
wear jeans!) and, of course, the grocery and liquorget too swept up in the cars and houses (although, I've
stores!I'm not sure why Bars got such a bad rap --been known to be swayed by a gorgeous home in
especially Dance Bars and Cool Pubs. They're fun tothe past...and currently, too! And a really gorgeous pool
hang out at with your friends, and perhaps you'll meetcould still turn my head! ha,ha!). It's the guy you have to
someone nice. Keep in mind that 'the wealthy' generallylive with, so might as well pretend that the other stuff
didn't start out that way -- you might find a diamond inisn't in the picture and see if you still like him. (Although,
the rough!Sports Games are great, too (small plug -- I'dtruth be told, there's many a man who would be all
like to see every Sports Team out there with theiralone if it weren't for their many attractive 'assets'!
own Logo on a Buff so when you went to gamesha!)10. Well, ladies, go out there and find the man of
there'd be a whole SEA of Buffs for each side -- ifyour dreams! Hey, find two or three! You might need a
you know someone interested in that, for Goodnessback-up, just in case! Good Luck!Remember that
Sake have them contact me! Pweeeease!) Back toWealth can be measured by many things -- a Wealth
the games -- want a manly man? Check out the localof Possibilities is sometimes even more fun in a mate
Rugby matches... Love Hockey or Basketball? Try tothan finding everything ready-made. Then you can
catch the NHL and MBA (whooops! Slight trip of thethen grow in your Wealth, together. Doesn't that sound
tongue, there! Although those MBA guys are great,like fun? Plus, Rich to one person might mean being
too...) ... Should be NBA Games, then go meet theable to pay all the bills without worrying, and to the
Players -- there's usually a cool Bar in or nearby thenext person 'Rich' might mean having the biggest
Arena where you could 'mingle'! No gushing, though --Yacht in the Habour. Make up your own mind about
play it calm and collected -- they'll appreciate the lack'How much does it take to be Wealthy', and you'll be
of craziness! All the people you will meet in thiswell on your way to your own Personal Wealth and
scenario will be interesting, so keep your mind openHappiness!Ailsa Forshaw is a Writer, Builder, Website
and make some new friends.Just one little tidbit aboutOwner & Manager, Teacher, Mother... all in Alberta,
going out with a group of girls -- watch out for theCanada. She is Married with Two Lovely Children, and
'group syndrome', where some poor soul comes overone gorgeous wee dog. Her Website, is chock full of
to ask you to dance and there's a quick and seldomall sorts of useful & fun information to help anyone
subtle 'group decision' about 'whether he should bebecome Financially Successful, Slim, Trim, and Happy...
permitted a dance or not'... ugh. Everybody hates this --what more could you want?? Pop in for a wee visit!